I was born with it. Starting now.

 "At a certain point in your life, 

probably when too much of it has gone by,

 you will open your eyes and see yourself for who you are...

especially for everything that made you so 

different from all the awful normals.

 And you will say to yourself,

 'But I am this person.'

 And in that statement, that correction,

 there will be a kind of love."

-Miss Dodger,  

Phoebe in Wonderland